Girls (yes, I am one) are emotional creatures that want to feel wanted, loved, needed and cared for. They like to hear these things, too. They want to know that you care and think of them when you aren't around them. I know all women are not the same, actually I'm quite different than most probably, but Maslow's hierarchy of needs is true for all people.
I think that I probably should be more attentive to the needs of others, as well as hope that others understand what I need in return. Sometimes I'm looking for strong arms to keep me safe and other times I just want to belong.
I've been watching The Following and that show is over the top. It's a wild show about a cult that are all following this convicted felon. I'll tell you, this is why people join cults, because they didn't get what they needed from society and family. I believe wholeheartedly that all things hinge on the love between one another.
Anyway - off the soapbox. back to the water tower....??? Why???