Thursday, May 3, 2012
April was a learning month for me. . .
April was a major learning month for me, and another life changer. I have learned so many things about myself lately, and to sum it up, I really like me. I know to a lot of people that sounds conceited. Really, it's not that I'm conceited at all. I have struggled a lot in my life to feel comfortable in my own skin. I've never been pretty enough or skinny enough or well..anything enough..It's taken me almost 35 years to decide that I am all of those things. I have a great guy and 3 wonderful children and a Lord that love me. I was raised by two parents that loved each other all of my childhood, and parents and grandparents that absolutely taught me the value of LOVE. I am so lucky and so thankful to have all that I have had. Do me a favor today - - - Know that today is going to be a good day and SMILE. ;)
I was thinking recently about how many people I have in my life that I care so much about, and I know I've said this before, but each person is like a snowflake to me. You are all so dear and I love you so much. Well maybe all of you are not dear to me, like maybe my ex-husband's wife..she's kinda not nice at all.
Last night, my dad called to invite me to a "family cookout" that my Uncle Terry is throwing this weekend. Terry is now the Patriarch of our family, and honestly, without someone pushing, our family will probably never get together as a whole again. I called Terry to explain that I'm walking the Mini this weekend, so I won't be able to make this one, but not to give up on me, I promise I will come sometime. He told me, "It's okay, sweetheart. I love you." This is crazy, but I cried so hard at those words from him. My uncles and I have not been very close, especially the last 15 years or so (man, I feel old). It's dumb..I know they all love me, but I somehow feel more attached to them all now that Grandpa is gone. Life is so weird sometimes.
Side note. . . I believe I'm starting a business with two other wonderful women soon. This won't affect the day job, but I'm meeting on Sunday to go over some stuff. This will be a storefront that holds acting classes in the evenings for children mostly, but we may do some adult stuff. I'm pretty excited, and I know everything about running my own business now with an 'A' in that Entrepreneurship class (haha). Wish us luck! More to come on this subject. . . . .